I believe true love (between siblings) includes acceptance of who they are. It's indeed incomprehensible for some of the things they did but we must remember everyone has their own fate pre-determined. Fate is unaviodable but destiny lies in our hands. With persistence, faith, hope and love, slowly walk your way into your sister's inner world and perhaps you might get the answers you want there. And, do bear in mind to accept everything with an open heart in her inner world as everyone is unique. Only then, try to explain to your mother for the way she is.
I aint saying all this is easy and it's tough doing all this alone. Let Nini gang accompany you through this journey and hopefully, all troubles would be cleared.
Remember, keep on believing. Faith can conquer all.
1 comment:
aaa... who's this? Corni izzit?
MaNy things are easier said than done.
Accepting, facing it and living with it are different issues altogether. I dare say I accept that my sis is a lesb (if not i wun even blog abt this openly). But facing the fact that she is in a r/s and living with the fact that there is a chance that she might not be well taken care of in the future is again all separate entities. (maybe my thinking is traditional, but i believe that my sis will be better taken care of with a male than a female)
dun get me wrong, i do appreciate your attention to me. And i am not offended; it is just that things are not as simple as it seems -- i am just whining a bit. Aniwei, thanx. :) *hugz*
Post a Comment